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Barbara Conellli’s Chique Secrets of Dolce Amore

Chique Secrets of Dolce Amore Barbara Conelllis Chique Secrets of Dolce Amore As a traveler with a longing to realize my childhood dream of visiting Italy, it is with anticipation I begin to read “Chique Secrets of Dolce Amore” by bestselling author and travel writer Barbara Conelli.

Divided into 15 equally enchanting chapters, her book tells tales of unexpected meetings, magical moments and love in Milan.

For Ms. Conelli, love doesn’t require lavishness or grand gestures. To her, it means something else; simple pleasures, new discoveries, little things, and much more.

In Milan, love can surround you everywhere. You just need to know where and how to look.

With grace and elegance, Ms. Conelli shares the city’s special spots, only known by locals and passionate lovers of Milan. Her unique way of capturing the magic of places and people she writes about is ever present, guiding you through Milan – by morning, day or night. Every part of the book brings a different perspective to the essence of love.

Mariella taught me that when the streets of Milan ask you to dance, there’s nothing else to do but put on your ballet shoes and surrender with confidence to the arms of the city that has materialized the visions of courageous, fearless people.

You will see Milan from a new angle rarely discovered by tourists, learn the origin to Pizza Margherita, shop for exclusive fashion in the Golden Quadrangle, find out where to go for a divine snack of crispy panzerotto (and where to savor it), come along on a romantic evening tram adventure, experience the sublime nature of ballet, and dine at an extravagant restaurant whose entire interior is for sale (because the owner believes “…every space must evolve and grow so that life energy can flow through it continuously…”).

It is as if you follow the author every step of the journey and you feel an unavoidable desire to walk the streets of Milan on location, not only through your imagination.

In Milan, there are very few things you can rely on. Life here is fast and loves constant changes.

The final chapter and Ms. Conneli’s unforeseen encounter with an American outside Tiffany’s, as taken out of a Hollywood movie, excellently summarizes what dolce amore is really about.

As part of her virtual book tour, Barbara Conelli is with us today to answer a few questions relating to her new book:

1. What inspired you to write “Chique Secrets of Dolce Amore”?  

Italy is my eternal inspiration. After ”Chique Secrets of Dolce Vita” that indulged in the Italian sweet life, I wanted to write a book that would show how much there is to love about Italy, and how much there is to love about our life. My intention was to take my readers on a magical journey around the most charming places of Milan and let them experience the same sensations I feel when I’m in my beloved city.

2. Which is your favorite aspect of Milan and the Italian lifestyle?  

It’s definitely the joy of life. The ability to truly live in the present moment and see the real beauty of life, rejoice in the little everyday things that matter so much – friends, delicious food, sunshine, laughter… We often think that happiness must be grandiose, yet it’s so ridiculously simple. Italy really helps you realize that life is a gift, with the good and the less good, and it’s to be appreciated and savored.

3. If only one thing, what are you hoping readers will garner from the book?  

A little bit of sweetness, a pinch of romance, a touch of dreaming, a hint of bliss, a whisper of passion. That’s what Italy is about, every single day.

The Secrets of Solitary Travelers

Barbara Conelli The Secrets of Solitary Travelers

Barbara Conelli.

By BARBARA CONELLI

The best trips of my life have been those I have taken alone. I am a solitary traveler, and I love it with every inch of my traveler’s soul. Many women are afraid to travel solo – they are worried about feeling lonely and not knowing what to do, or are busy creating worst case scenarios about the risks they may encounter. But once they discover the beauty and zest of solitary travel, they swear by it for the rest of their life.

Today I would like to share with you the top three secrets of solitary travelers, and give you a juicy tip that will help you take your first baby step into the adventure of solitary travel.

Secret #1: Solitary Travel Helps You Grow

When you travel on your own, you grow as a person and discover the true you that may have been hiding under the expectations, wishes and desires of others. As a solitary traveler, you learn to rely on yourself and take responsibility for your actions. You become more open-minded and tolerant to other cultures, religions and opinions. You turn into a keen observer excited to discover the real face of the places you visit. You have time to think about yourself, about what you really love, and about who the beautiful woman in the mirror really is.

Secret #2: Solitary Travel Helps You Make New Friends

When you travel on your own for the first time, you immediately discover that you’re never alone. As you pay more attention to people around you, you are approached by strangers, exposed to their life stories, and you make new friends easily and effortlessly. When you travel with your usual clique, your chances to meet knew people and really get to know them are quite small. When traveling the world, I have met dozens of amazing people and most of them have become my closest friends.

Secret #3: Solitary Travel Helps You Taste True Freedom

When you travel on your own, you can seize your days, you can seize your nights, and how you do it is only up to you. You can go wherever you want and whenever you feel like it. You can eat what you want, wake up when you want, and do crazy things without being judged by your “wise and reasonable friends”. You are free to explore the world and yourself. You can wear crazy hats, and go make-up free, and be childish, and flirt, and laugh, and eat lots of chocolate, and hike, and swim, and sleep, and maybe for the first time in your life live the way only YOU want, in the present moment, just for yourself.

Dolce Vita Solitary Travel Tip

Okay, maybe the idea of becoming a solitary traveler excites you and scares you at the same time. Why don’t you start small? Choose a city close to your home where you’ve never been. Or a nearby city that has a restaurant or spa you have always wanted to try. Or a city with a wonderful theater play or exhibition you desire to see. Book a nice hotel for the weekend, pack an overnight bag, take your camera, get in your car, take a deep breath and go! Very often we think that traveling means flying far away without realizing that beautiful treasures can be found just a few miles away waiting to be explored by the beautiful newborn solitary traveler – YOU.

Barbara Conelli is an internationally published author and Chiquenist on the mission to bring Fantastic Fearless Feminine Fun into women’s lives. In her charming, delightful and humorous Chique Books filled with Italian passion, Barb invites women to explore Italy from the comfort of their home with elegance, grace and style, encouraging them to live their own Dolce Vita no matter where they are in the world. Barb lives between New York and Milan, and as a real globetrotter, she’s always on the move, accompanied by her adorable and very spoiled beagle. To her, writing is like breathing, and she’s currently working on her new book.

Her latest book, Chique Secrets of Dolce Vita, is a narrative travel nonfiction book full of charming, poetic, delightful and humorous travel and life stories about extraordinary Milanese women and men who have succumbed to their temptation and the art of living your own dolce vita no matter where in the world you are. You can visit her website at http://www.barbaraconelli.com/ or connect with her at Twitter at www.twitter.com/barbaraconelli or Facebook at http://www.facebook.com/barbaraconelli.